Loneliness(es)
I wrote the following words a little while back. They were for an anthology on ‘loneliness’ that was originally intended for publication later this year. Unfortunately, not enough submissions were received (possibly due to the general unwillingness of people to talk about feeling/being lonely) so the publication was cancelled, and I was asked if it was OK to delete my entry. I thought about this, but rather than wipe it, I decided to just put it out here…: “The thing about feeling alone is that we assume that this is the same as being alone. We tell ourselves that we shouldn’t feel lonely because ‘ look at all the people, friends and family, we have around us in the world’ . But the number of loved ones around you doesn’t mean you are guarded against loneliness. Loneliness is also not of one form. It is not a single feeling – we can feel lonely in several ways. When my brother died by suicide, I was surprised to learn how lonely I could feel when so many people were aro...